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Dr. Lani Jones on Creating Boundaries and Not Being the "Good Little Girl"

SHOW NOTES: Episode 10

Are boundaries something that you struggle with? Today’s episode is a good one just for you! On today’s episode of the Relationships Unraveled Podcast, I am chatting with my friend, Dr. Lani Jones. Dr. Lani Jones is a writer, speaker, clinical psychologist and the author of “Stop Being the Google Little Girl: Combating the Trifecta of Lies”, a story of how her own healing journey has intersected with her role as a psychologist and helping others break down barriers of lies, fears, and insecurities that are keeping them from thriving, living out their identity in Christ, and ultimately walking in freedom. She’s on a mission to show others what’s possible when we walk straight to the fire and claim the freedom that God so graciously offers us.

We talk more about what society says about women and the things that have become the norm that affect every interaction we have. We can even subconsciously pass this on to our children. Dr. Lani shares practical tips that you can use to create boundaries and “stop being the good little girl.” Diving into this starts with self-awareness. Tune in to today’s episode to understand more about how this can look for you if this is something you are experiencing.

This was a fabulous conversation that you’re not going to want to miss! I would love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode on Instagram @marandakirk or feel free to send me an email:


  • Boundaries

  • What society says about how women should be and how this affects our interactions with those around us

  • Practical tips that you can use to create boundaries



Life’s greatest joy and greatest pain come in our relationships with others.  God created us for relationships so it's no surprise that we learn best how to navigate them…together! 

On Relationships Unraveled, we will create an inviting atmosphere for conversations that goes below the surface!  We will unravel stories and relationship dynamics of all kinds (God, Self, and Others), through honest and practical conversations that shock the norm to create new perspectives and understanding! I am your host, Maranda Kirk, and I use my faith in Jesus, passion, life experiences, and training as a life coach and Enneagram coach, to unravel ideas around relationships. 

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